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WE NEVER GET WHAT WE WANT, WE NEVER WANT WE GET,
WE NEVER HAVE WHAT WE LIKE,WE NEVER LIKE WHAT WE 
HAVE, STILL WE LIVE.....STILL WE HOPE.......THAT' S the game 
of LIFE. 
Love is not sumthg that is born in the morning, shines in the noon and
 dies at night.Is finding the right person to love, a very tall order in reality............
Some one veri special 2 me.......geesh not mentioning ur name Gopalji told me that "Finding the right person is very hard and very wrong.....it is best to be the right person 
for the one you love and start from there..........you'll always end up
 disappointed when you set standards and define a "right person"
for you....don't rush things....finish your studies and let your
family decide coz somewhere somehow God is preparing somebody
for you."This was said not in so many words but thats what I heard
loud and clear.Well, my thoughts rebelled with that logic.
Noone is perfect is a accepted fact by one and all and how can I disgree with the majority.......................lol.
You can never be perfect...the person you love can never be
perfect...but both of you can be perfect through love and prayers,
and your love can be perfect through the both of you. But, no
relationship is complete without God.....that's why we have marriage
it's a bond not only between you and your loved one....but also with
God................. and his powers.Am I making sense here?????
Our relationships fail not because (s)he's not the right
person....it's because we expected too much and we decided on our
own....let God do the work...you may call it waiting time....but
while you are waiting...pray.
Let God guide you always...He knows better. No, He knows best.
Love is not what you think it is....Sometimes we mistakenly feel that
our first relationship will be our last. Because we are overwhelmed
with joy and romance, we forget to learn the meaning of true
love. Some are saying that love is unselfish, blind, unconditional or
simply denying oneself for the sake of someone very important in our
life.
Others are saying love is immortal and can never be defined. When we
think we're in love the first thing we almost wanted the whole world
to know is that our love for someone very special can never be taken
away from us. We say this phrase "You are the most wonderful gift
from GOD I have ever received..." .
And after a terrible fight or sometimes even a petty quarrel we
then say "You are the biggest mistake i've ever made for my entire
life...!!!!". Now, how do you say and spell the word L-O-V-E? Are you
really deeply into it?
Nobody can tell what love really is until experience speaks and
whispers right into our ears. Most of the time, these love promises
like "Forever, till Death do us apart, etc." would end up "Never"
and "We should part ways, I'm no longer happy with you! My love for
you is DEAD!!!".
Many times we thought after having committed to someone and your
trust to one another freezes down to zero degree "She/He ain't the
right one."
But the big question anyone could not answer is "Is she/he the right
one?" and "When is the right time?" That made us stick to whom we are
with. Will you always be waiting for the right person to come and the
right time to commit? A big YES is the answer. Don't be in a hurry to
get into a relationship because you can never find love if you insist
that you are already into it. Try to find time to really understand
your real feelings, to know who you really are, and what you really
want in a relationship.
You're right, There is no such thing as a perfect relationship, but
there's a compatible partnership that goes along with it. If you
already knew that you're too big to fit into a small sized t-shirt,
don't give it a try. You'll probably break it and pay for the damages
you have made. If you knew and felt that the relationship will not
last, don't go deeper into it. You'll just suffer the consequences
and live like hell the rest of your life.
It's really hard to say goodbye though, but you can't make it any
better by just pretending you still have the same feelings. Try to
let go and give yourself a chance to live life to the fullest. Give
yourself a chance to grow and give your heart a much needed
attention. Then you will find that you have made the right decision
and you made it all by yourself. More frequently than not, we all act
in a hypocritical manner for some reason.
We call it love when we can't leave someone and see them crying as we
try to let go. We are wrong, it's just pity. We call it love when
we're too attached and think that losing the one we love will somehow
make us weak and unable to face the storms of life. We misunderstood,
its just that we're too much dependent to them. We call it love when
we give our whole life to them, the wholeness of us and imagined that
if they leave no one would accept us and our past.
We are mistaken, its just insecurity. But no matter what the
definition is, the truth still remains that love isn't something you
can buy nor beg. It is real and existing. You can't touch it but you
can feel it in your heart. You can't find it, but it will knock
before you when you least expect it to comeIt can make you the happiest soul in heaven, but don't forget that it
also can make you the most miserable person in the whole galaxy.
...............N hopefulli I don end up dis way.............geeshhhhhhh.........godforbid........
I guess I just will wait for the right time to ring the bell of fortune.
I truli hope I did not bore u all.............incase I did den I m realli cholli 
abt it.

Sara.